Countless Children Are Held Apart From Loving Parents

This site is dedicated to Tomu “TJ” Kutsukake, a boy now living in Japan with his Japanese mother, forbidden all contact with his American father since July 30, 2022. The hope is to shed light on children like TJ around the world who are at this very moment forbidden all contact with one loving parent by the other. Countless children abducted by one parent or simply denied contact with the other by virtue of arcane and/or corrupt legal systems suffer in silence every day.

Even some first world nations choose not to enforce international law, specifically the Hague Abduction Convention to which there are 101 Contracting States, including Japan. Japan is perhaps the most notable of all convention partners in terms of its blatant disregard for the treaty. The nation of Japan refuses to honor its participation in the international convention by deliberately offering no legal mechanisms for enforcement. A Hague ruling in favor of an aggrieved parent is nothing more than a verdict to be ignored by the Japanese Government.

Domestic and international child abduction, denial of legal visitation rights and parental alienation destroy the lives of parents and children alike.


“Children are not things to be molded, but are people to be unfolded.”
– Jess Lair
Every child already carries a world inside them. A parent’s role is not to shape who they must become, but to protect the space where they can safely grow into who they already are.

Love is not

❄️ The first snowfall of winter arrived in Japan today.

I found myself wondering what TJ might be doing right now. Is he packing snow into his gloves. Laughing so hard his cheeks turn red. Maybe his games have changed over the years from carefully building snowmen to fast

Soon, it'll be Thanksgiving.
And as this holiday season arrives, I am all too burdened by the emotions of being apart from my dear son.

Some distances can be crossed with planes… others only with love.
Today, I share the words my heart has carried every day.
🍁💛

“To my son,

TJ, the truth of love is made of time spent.
 Help me make some truth with you.
 I’ll take ten minutes if that’s the door that opens.
 Please turn the handle.

​​​​​​#andrewjamestucker #yukatucker #tjsdaddy #JointCustody #abusehasnogender #YukaKutsukake #AndrewTucker #TJ

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