Countless Children Are Held Apart From Loving Parents

This site is dedicated to Tomu “TJ” Kutsukake, a boy now living in Japan with his Japanese mother, forbidden all contact with his American father since July 30, 2022. The hope is to shed light on children like TJ around the world who are at this very moment forbidden all contact with one loving parent by the other. Countless children abducted by one parent or simply denied contact with the other by virtue of arcane and/or corrupt legal systems suffer in silence every day.

Even some first world nations choose not to enforce international law, specifically the Hague Abduction Convention to which there are 101 Contracting States, including Japan. Japan is perhaps the most notable of all convention partners in terms of its blatant disregard for the treaty. The nation of Japan refuses to honor its participation in the international convention by deliberately offering no legal mechanisms for enforcement. A Hague ruling in favor of an aggrieved parent is nothing more than a verdict to be ignored by the Japanese Government.

Domestic and international child abduction, denial of legal visitation rights and parental alienation destroy the lives of parents and children alike.


Dear TJ,

Happy 9th Birthday, my son. 🎂💙

Today, you are nine years old, and I hope you know just how incredibly loved you are.

I may not be able to be beside you to celebrate your birthday the way I wish I could, but that will never change how much I love you or how often I

A few days from now, my son will celebrate another birthday.

I find myself thinking about him even more than usual.

I hope he knows that wherever he is, he is surrounded by love. I know his mom cares for him deeply, and I’m eternally grateful that he has someone there to look

One of the hardest parts of being separated
from your child is knowing they may not hear your side
of the story for many years.

I can't control what they're told.
I can't control whether my messages reach them.
But I can control the kind of father I choose to be.

These are some

This week, discussions about family law, shared parenting, and children's rights continue around the world.

No matter what country we live in, one truth remains the same:

Children deserve love from both parents.

This isn't about winning.

It isn't about adults choosing sides.

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