Countless Children Are Held Apart From Loving Parents

This site is dedicated to Tomu “TJ” Kutsukake, a boy now living in Japan with his Japanese mother, forbidden all contact with his American father since July 30, 2022. The hope is to shed light on children like TJ around the world who are at this very moment forbidden all contact with one loving parent by the other. Countless children abducted by one parent or simply denied contact with the other by virtue of arcane and/or corrupt legal systems suffer in silence every day.

Even some first world nations choose not to enforce international law, specifically the Hague Abduction Convention to which there are 101 Contracting States, including Japan. Japan is perhaps the most notable of all convention partners in terms of its blatant disregard for the treaty. The nation of Japan refuses to honor its participation in the international convention by deliberately offering no legal mechanisms for enforcement. A Hague ruling in favor of an aggrieved parent is nothing more than a verdict to be ignored by the Japanese Government.

Domestic and international child abduction, denial of legal visitation rights and parental alienation destroy the lives of parents and children alike.


This time of year marks endings and beginnings. Graduations, new classrooms, new steps forward.

For parents, every milestone is bittersweet. Pride and longing can exist at the same time.

Children grow forward.
Parents love endlessly.
No matter how far life takes them, the bond

TJ, I keep a chair angled toward the door.
 It’s a small thing, like the first step we need.
 I’ll follow any rule put in place.
 Please allow that first step to be taken.

​​​​​#YukaKutsukake #AndrewTucker #TJ #parentalalienation #YuKaren

I mark no dates, I plan no celebrations.
 I only plan to show up with respect.
 TJ, the rest can be decided on the spot.
 Yuka, may we set one steady time?

​​​​​#YukaKutsukake #AndrewTucker #TJ #parentalalienation #YuKaren

TJ, my pockets hold small stories I saved for you.
 They’re better told face to face.
 I’m not here to fight for noise—I’m here for moments.
 Please let me see my son and hand them over.

​​​​​#YukaKutsukake #AndrewTucker #TJ #parentalalienation #YuKaren

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