Countless Children Are Held Apart From Loving Parents

This site is dedicated to Tomu “TJ” Kutsukake, a boy now living in Japan with his Japanese mother, forbidden all contact with his American father since July 30, 2022. The hope is to shed light on children like TJ around the world who are at this very moment forbidden all contact with one loving parent by the other. Countless children abducted by one parent or simply denied contact with the other by virtue of arcane and/or corrupt legal systems suffer in silence every day.

Even some first world nations choose not to enforce international law, specifically the Hague Abduction Convention to which there are 101 Contracting States, including Japan. Japan is perhaps the most notable of all convention partners in terms of its blatant disregard for the treaty. The nation of Japan refuses to honor its participation in the international convention by deliberately offering no legal mechanisms for enforcement. A Hague ruling in favor of an aggrieved parent is nothing more than a verdict to be ignored by the Japanese Government.

Domestic and international child abduction, denial of legal visitation rights and parental alienation destroy the lives of parents and children alike.


A boy’s heart is often hidden beneath jokes, competition, and quiet loyalty. But there lies a world as deep as the ocean. Behind the smiles, behind the tough facade, behind the “I’m fine,” there sleep quiet and beautiful emotions.

We often tell them “boys don’t cry” and “be…

As I look back on this year’s ski season,
and with barely a week to go,
even less time in Japan before Father’s Day,
I am very deeply saddened.
Or should I say, I fear,
for the third year that my son will not even be asked,
“Would you like to call your dad?”…

Right now, I feel that the divide between Yuka and me is very deep.
But I don’t see this situation as a battle—
I see it as something we need to resolve, for TJ’s sake.

I saw two strangers arguing about TJ on X.
It was painful to watch.
TJ shouldn’t be a topic for public…

In Japan, there is no such thing as joint custody after separation.

Only one parent is granted legal custody.
The other loses all parental rights. Even if they were fully involved and loving before.

This system:
- Has no obligation to support contact with the non-custodial…

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