Countless Children Are Held Apart From Loving Parents

This site is dedicated to Tomu “TJ” Kutsukake, a boy now living in Japan with his Japanese mother, forbidden all contact with his American father since July 30, 2022. The hope is to shed light on children like TJ around the world who are at this very moment forbidden all contact with one loving parent by the other. Countless children abducted by one parent or simply denied contact with the other by virtue of arcane and/or corrupt legal systems suffer in silence every day.

Even some first world nations choose not to enforce international law, specifically the Hague Abduction Convention to which there are 101 Contracting States, including Japan. Japan is perhaps the most notable of all convention partners in terms of its blatant disregard for the treaty. The nation of Japan refuses to honor its participation in the international convention by deliberately offering no legal mechanisms for enforcement. A Hague ruling in favor of an aggrieved parent is nothing more than a verdict to be ignored by the Japanese Government.

Domestic and international child abduction, denial of legal visitation rights and parental alienation destroy the lives of parents and children alike.


Even if I can’t see him, I will never stop being his father.

Yuka may keep TJ away, but that doesn’t mean I stop caring. It doesn’t mean I stop showing up for him in every way I can.

Every single month, I send as much financial support as I can.
Above and beyond what the law…

TJ, I keep your bike tires pumped with hope.  
Yuka, let him ride back into my arms.  
The driveway stays a runway with no pilot.  
I count the days like spokes on a wheel.

​​​​​​#andrewjamestuckerUSN #yukatucker #tjsdaddy #JointCustody #abusehasnogender #YukaKutsukake…

TJ, morning cartoons play to an empty couch.  
Yuka, please let us laugh beside him again.  
The remote waits for small fingers to press play.  
Silence fills scenes meant for giggles.

​​​​​​#andrewjamestuckerUSN #yukatucker #tjsdaddy #JointCustody #abusehasnogender…

☀️ Summer in Japan is meant for family ☀️

The school sports festivals where kids run with all their heart🏃‍♂️
Fireworks lighting up the night while we share cold drinks and laughter.
Lazy afternoons at the park, cicadas singing, ice cream melting too fast🍧

And for so many…

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